This post is inspired by 90% of status updates on facebook. I share with you select wisdom of my mother:
1.) It is cold outside, you are correct.
2.) It is January and you live in the tundra. What did you expect?
3.) Everyone else in the tundra is cold too. These negative temperatures do not just affect you.
4.) Whining about the weather will neither make you any warmer nor endear you to others. (I have been alerted that some folks feel solidarity with others and bond over the cold temps. Fine, you might feel solidarity, but I bet you don’t feel warm.)
5.) Buck up. Find something to do.


I Chopped Off a Foot…Twelve Inches of Hair
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I keep waiting to feel sad, but it’s just not happening. My friends who’ve already done this warned me that I’d be sad. I’ll cry, they cautioned, it will take awhile to get used to the change. The latter part is true for sure, but not in a negative way. I’m chronically squeezing out too much shampoo and then too much conditioner. As someone raised as a Lutheran Scot in the Midwest, I definitely feel guilty about that waste, but not sad.
A week and a one-half ago, I cut off twelve inches of hair which I donated to the Pantene Beautiful Lengths Program. This program’s mission is to provide wigs to women who lose their hair due to cancer treatments. (I considered donating to Locks of Love, which makes wigs for children. However, most LoL recipients suffer from alopecia and cancer is a more personal cause for me and my family. I looked into both organizations and both are solid causes.) The last time my hair was this short, I still had baby teeth and Mr. Reagan was clamoring for Mr. Gorbachev to “tear down that wall.” It’s clearly been awhile. I did maintain enough length that my hair is roughly at my shoulders and I can pull it back into a perky (short) little ponytail. Still, it feels kind of crazy. I reach back to touch it all the time, to make sure it’s there, but it’s also not all there.
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